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Does
Penis Size Matter?
Some say yes, some
say no. It is a matter of continuing controversy. Men and
women argue this point, and magazines have frequent articles on this
subject.
Sometimes size simply
does matter, however. Gina from Los Angeles has this to say:
"I have been
dating a man who I think is wonderful. We have so much in common,
and everything is great. The problem is that when we have intercourse,
I can't feel his penis inside of me. There is also no contact
with my clitoris. It doesn't matter how long he goes, I can't
feel his cock.
With other partners,
I can reach orgasm within a couple of minutes, but he is so small, I
just can't. I feel embarrassed going on about specifics, but his
penis is about 4 1/2 inches long and very thin. I try to tell myself that it doesn't matter, but the fact is that
I deserve to have good sex and to have orgasms.
Not only can I not
come, but I am worried that he can't feel much either, which makes me
feel like less of a woman with him. I don't
know what other women do in this situation, but I'm confused and upset. This guy and I get along
so well, and everything is so great, but the sex is so unsatisfying.
What can I do?"
There are a few things
they can try, but unfortunately first she has to be able to tell him
what the problem is - and that is bound to be uncomfortable, and to
put a strain on their relationship. Can you imagine how difficult it would be for a woman to tell a man
she cares about that she can't feel his penis during sex?
After they have talked
about the problem, they can talk about solutions so that Gina receives
the sexual stimulation she needs to feel
good about their physical relationship. There are penile extenders available at most sex toy
shops, or they can be bought online. There are small vibrators designed to stimulate
the clitoris during intercourse or at other times. Her boyfriend
can use a vibrator and masturbate or perform oral sex before or after
intercourse.
Also there are penis
enlargement techniques and programs. First off, there is surgery,
but that is expensive and intrusive. Most men would not willingly undergo
surgery, nor should a woman ask it. Then there are mechanical
enlargement techniques such as penis pumps and stretching rings.
These can have some effect, but can also weaken and tear the delicate
tissue of the penis. Some doubt that these pumps can be effective,
and there are differing opinions as to whether such mechanical techniques work.
There are also exercises
like the jelq and some special kinds of stretching. These exercises
can have some effect, but require both
knowledge and regular effort. Lastly there are penis pills,
which on their own usually have a great effect and can increase the
size of the penis.
It all depends on what
Penis pills you choose as some are simply a rip off.
Obviously in some
situations, size can make a difference, not only in terms of the quality
of sex, but also as far as the comfort
involved in the relationship.
